Questions
Wedding Trivia:
Before you blow his/her mind with the GOL, watch your wedding video and compile a list of trivia questions:
- How well do you remember the vows?
- Could you name the whole wedding party?
- Could you name (first and last name) the person that married you?
- What was your embarrassing part?
- What was the funniest part?
- Could you name the order of the ceremony?
- What songs were sung during the ceremony?
- What song did you come in and leave to?
- Did __________ (insert person's name) cry?
- How long was the ceremony (give a 5 minute window)?
- Etc.
Reception Trivia:
Similar to the Wedding Trivia game, but focus the questions on the reception.
- What was your embarrassing part?
- What was the funniest part?
- Did _______ (insert person's name) get drunk?
- Did __________ (insert person's name) cry?
- What was your first dance song?
- What did you eat?
- Who was the best dancer?
- Etc.
Top five lists:
- Places you'd like to do it
- favorite positions
- people you get a free hall pass with (you know... brad pitt, etc.)
- favorite parts on your partners body
- best times ever having sex with your partner
- biggest fantasies
- childhood fantasies (you know... people/things that got you through puberty - think Topanga from Boy Meets World or that busty girl from saved by the bell... we all have a couple of those)
Favorite ______________ (PG version):
- Food
- Restaurant
- Candy
- Travel location / vacation
- Family member
- Indulgence
- Beverage
- Childhood memory
- etc.
Dreams:
- Family
- How many kids/grandkids will you have?
- What will your kids do when they grow up?
- What will be their occupations?
- Possession
- What's your dream car, house, boat, etc.?
- Odd item that you'd love to have.
- Occupation you'd love to explore.
- Dream vacation. Where? Doing what? With whom?
One (or more) things that you don't know about me:
- Could be as silly as an embarrassing story from high school, or college.
Bucket List:
- List of things you'd love to do at least once.
- Places to visit, adventures to undertake, foods to eat, people to meet, etc.
Childhood:
- Best memory
- Worst memory
- Favorite friend
- Funniest story
Junior High / High School
- Worst/best moment
- Biggest trouble you got into
- Moment you'd like to take back or do-over
- Risk you wish you'd taken
Your Sexual History (TOGETHER):
- Describe your first kiss - When, where, outfit, etc.
- When/where/how was your first time having sex? If you've never really talked about it, it's amazing how you can see this event differently! :)
- What was the most outrageous place you have had sex?
- When was your hottest night of sex?
Sexuality:
- What most attracts you to your partner?
- What is your partner's best feature?
- What is your partner's best "move"?
- Tell me about a fantasy.
- What's one thing you'd like to try but are too afraid to ask?
- Describe your perfect kiss.
Would you rather:
- Would you rather.... (fill in the blank with your own questions)
If you won the lottery:
- Where would you live, what would drive, what would you indulge in?
Fears:
- Silly things like bugs, heights, small spaces
- Larger things like money, family, security, etc.
- Name something you would like to do, but are scared to try.
- What is your biggest fear? What was your biggest fear as a child, teenager, young adult? Have they changed?
Misc.
- Write down three things that you love the most about your partner. See if they can correctly guess what is on your mind.
- How do you picture your life in five years? In ten? Discuss your similarities and differences when it comes to the future.
- How would you describe a hero? Who is yours? What heroic qualities does your significant other possess?
- Describe a time when you were touched by someone’s kindness or compassion
- What was your first impression of your partner? Was it accurate? In what ways has your partner changed?
- What is your most embarrassing moment? Decide whose was worse.
- Describe, in detail, a significant event that changed you as a person. Was this a good or bad change?
- What is something that you would like to change about yourself? How can you achieve this? How can your partner help?
- What gives you “butterflies?” If you can recall, when was the last time you felt them?
- In what ways are you most similar to your partner? How are you different? Do these traits help or hinder your relationship?
- What outfit or type of clothing do you love seeing your partner wear? Do you remember what they were wearing on your first date?
- What kind of things do you consider romantic? Plan a romantic date night together or take turns planning a night out.
- What is your favorite way to be touched (sexually or non sexually)?
- Is the glass half empty or half full? Has this outlook changed over the years? What do you think has affected this point of view?
- What motivates you the most in life? What makes you feel discouraged or disengaged?
- What do you consider a relationship deal breaker? What did you consider a relationship deal breaker ten years ago?
- What is the scariest nightmare or recurring dream that you can remember? Together, try to interpret your dreams.
- How has your relationship changed since you started dating? Provide positive and negative examples.
- What is the strongest part of your relationship? What is the weakest? How can you improve the weak spots?
- What traits make you a compatible couple? Do opposites attract?
- In relationships, how do you fight or act during a disagreement? As a couple, do you think you could improve how you handle disagreements? How?
- What is something you need to “let go.” How can you do this? How can your partner help?
- What are the important values in your life? Did your parents impart them on you?
- What characteristics make a strong marriage? Did you observe these characteristics growing up?
- Share a secret. Do you think couples should keep secrets?
- If all of your friends and family members were asked to describe you, who would provide the most accurate description?
- How would you describe your partner to a friend? How do you think your partner would describe you?
- When do you feel most like yourself? Why do you think this is?
- Describe your toughest battle? Did you win or lose? What did you learn from it?
- What was your favorite book or movie as a child? What did you love about it? Do you still enjoy the same type of stories?
- What did you want to be when you were a little kid? Why?
- What would your childhood self think of the person you’ve become? What advice would you give to him or her.
- Who is your celebrity crush? What attracts you to them?
- If you were describing your partner to someone else, what would you say?
- What controversial issue or topic do you feel strongly about?
- Recount a tough obstacle you faced and conquered as a couple. What helped you through it?
- Brainstorm unique date ideas (and hopefully follow through with them).
- When do you feel vulnerable? What makes you feel safe?
- Name a dream or goal that you never shared or thought possible.
- Describe the perfect day — what do you do and with whom is it shared?
- How does your partner make you a better person? How do they make you worse?